Understanding God's Forgiveness and Our Call to Forgive Others

The Debt We All Carry

Every American citizen carries a financial debt on their head - about $105,000 per person in national debt. But there's a much larger debt that we don't often talk about: our spiritual debt to God. Thankfully, God's forgiveness through Jesus Christ offers us complete freedom from this impossible burden.

As people of God, every single one of us has fallen short. The definition of falling short or missing the mark is called sin. And every time you miss the mark, you have sinned. David said in Psalms 51:5, "I was born into sin." When Adam sinned, we all sinned. But here's the beautiful truth - God's forgiveness is greater than our greatest failure.

Let's be honest with ourselves - we all have sinned. Some have small sins, some have big sins, but we all have what? We are predisposed to sin. We all have a pre-existing condition. With this condition, we make mistakes. And wherever there is sin, there is a debt that must be paid.

The Impossible Debt

In biblical times, when someone had a debt they couldn't pay, debt collectors would come to your house with magistrates. They would nail a debt certificate to your front door listing all your debts - rental center, car finance, credit cards - for everyone to see. The goal was to embarrass you into paying.

Whether you believe it or not, God's a great accountant. He knows all your issues. But He realized that within us was an inability to pay our spiritual debt. Since He's holy, He cannot look past our debt.

That's when Jesus stepped in and said, "Hey, Dad, they can't pay it. I'll go down, set them free, and then I will step into the prison, and you can deal with me so they can be free."

The Parable of Forgiveness

Jesus described this beautifully in Matthew 18 through a story of a servant who owed his king an impossible debt. Let me break down the numbers for you:

The servant owed 10,000 talents. In today's dollars, that's approximately $443 million - a debt that would take 160,000 years to pay off. We only live about 70-80 years at best. It was literally impossible for him to pay.

But here's what's amazing: when the servant begged for mercy, the king's heart was moved with compassion. He released him and forgave the entire debt.

The Grace Account

But then this same servant went out and found a fellow servant who owed him just 100 denarii - about 100 days' labor. After being forgiven 160,000 years of debt, he choked this man for 100 days of debt!

This is where it gets personal. Some of you are hard on people. Some of you are very judgmental, acting like you don't have a debt. What gave you the audacity to put yourself on the judgment seat like you have no skeletons?

All the grace God has given you every single day - fresh mercy every morning - and you can't give anybody grace? You have to keep your grace account full.

The Certificate is Cancelled

Here's the beautiful truth from Colossians 2:13-14: When you were dead in your sins, God made you alive together with Christ, having freely forgiven us of our sins. He cancelled out the certificate of debt that was against us by nailing it to the cross.

All of us had this certificate on our door. Whether it was little or a lot, we all had a debt. Jesus said, "I'm going to pull out my black card" - that's a card with no limit. He took our debt and put it on His account, settling it on the cross.

Your Liberation Day

At some point, believer, you've got to get sick and tired of being sick and tired. Sick of mistakes, sick of falling short, sick of apologizing for the same thing over and over again.

Harriet Tubman once said she could have freed many more slaves, but they didn't know they were slaves. Sometimes you don't even know you're in bondage until you get free.

John 8:36 says, "For who the Son has set free is free indeed." Let today be your liberation day. Let today be the day you say, "Lord, I need you. I've tried by myself long enough, and it hasn't worked. I surrender."

The Call to Forgive

Here's the challenge: How long do you want to carry that debt? How long do you want to carry that weight? Matthew 11:28 says, "Come to me all those who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest."

Unforgiveness always corrupts the container that contains it. You not forgiving them isn't hurting them - it's hurting you. Unforgiveness is like drinking poison thinking it's going to hurt the other person.

When you pray the Lord's Prayer, you say, "Forgive us our debts as we have forgiven our debtors." That means letting go of both the wrong AND the resentment.

Prayer for Today

Father God, I will forgive again so I can live again. I will let them go so I can grow. Whoever that person is that comes to mind when my blood pressure goes up - I choose to forgive them today. Help me keep my grace account full, remembering how much You have forgiven me. In Jesus' name, Amen.

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